I have a friend who met this guy this past summer. She fell head over heels for him and they were immediately on the fast track to being a serious relationship.
He did all the right things in her book. He was affectionate, he got along with her friends, and he liked to take her out. When things got bad between her and her roommate he stepped in and acted like the big bad boyfriend to protect her. Not to long into their relationship when things got worst with her roommate and she was already spending every waking hour at his house they decided it would be best if she just moved in. She didn't mind at the time that he already had other roommates and lived in a complete bachelor pad.
Things were great...I think...I never really hung out with her while she was with him. She would call every now and then, but mainly she only did things with him and had to run things by him before she would commit on any plans we wanted to include her in on. Soooo annoying.
Well things eventually went south and he broke up with her. He was wishy washy at first about things after their initial talk, but eventually when they sat down again he laid it down straight that he did not want to be with her.
What else more does one woman need to hear from a man to get it through their head that he doesn't want her? How many times does a man need to act like a complete idiot for a woman to realize that he is not even worth her time?
He didn't text or call her on Valentine's Day....she seemed upset about this. I asked her why they hell would he want to do that and why the hell would she want him to do that? I mean didn't he just tell her the other day that he didn't want to be with her anymore? Shortly after she told me she looks on his facebook page and notices that some girl he knows that she was suspicious about is now single and has written something on his page.
She then proceeds into my bathroom and cries.
I do not know what it is about women....why do we allow ourselves to get lost in men? Why do we allow ourselves to lose our identity and forget who are friends are just because a man enters our world? This is why I feel that women need to be strong and confident in who they are before they allow a man to get that close to us.
We should not allow anyone who is not worth it steal our time and especially our tears.
He did all the right things in her book. He was affectionate, he got along with her friends, and he liked to take her out. When things got bad between her and her roommate he stepped in and acted like the big bad boyfriend to protect her. Not to long into their relationship when things got worst with her roommate and she was already spending every waking hour at his house they decided it would be best if she just moved in. She didn't mind at the time that he already had other roommates and lived in a complete bachelor pad.
Things were great...I think...I never really hung out with her while she was with him. She would call every now and then, but mainly she only did things with him and had to run things by him before she would commit on any plans we wanted to include her in on. Soooo annoying.
Well things eventually went south and he broke up with her. He was wishy washy at first about things after their initial talk, but eventually when they sat down again he laid it down straight that he did not want to be with her.
What else more does one woman need to hear from a man to get it through their head that he doesn't want her? How many times does a man need to act like a complete idiot for a woman to realize that he is not even worth her time?
He didn't text or call her on Valentine's Day....she seemed upset about this. I asked her why they hell would he want to do that and why the hell would she want him to do that? I mean didn't he just tell her the other day that he didn't want to be with her anymore? Shortly after she told me she looks on his facebook page and notices that some girl he knows that she was suspicious about is now single and has written something on his page.
She then proceeds into my bathroom and cries.
I do not know what it is about women....why do we allow ourselves to get lost in men? Why do we allow ourselves to lose our identity and forget who are friends are just because a man enters our world? This is why I feel that women need to be strong and confident in who they are before they allow a man to get that close to us.
We should not allow anyone who is not worth it steal our time and especially our tears.
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